My Purr'mesan: Our deep sympathy (Mama Vergel's Funeral wake)

I received a SMS from Tita Marlyn last Monday morning " Jen nabalitaan mo na ba ang masamang balita sa tatay ni Emi?" after I got the message I assumed that Mama Vehe gone already..I don't know but I had a strong hunch that he passed away, to confirm my initial thought I called Tita Marlyn, I decided not to call Emi because she might get emotional..

Mama Vehe passed away around 6 am at Yanga hospital due to coronary heart failure. I never thought that his ailment was alarming. As per MD's advice the patient had a stomach pain due to red scars inside his abdomen.. according to Emy, she was saddened, if she could find ways to extend the life of his father she would do it no matter what, Emy was so disappointed with the doctors impression..all they knew was there was no fatal condition..What she observed to her father was he was extremely depressed to his life..he was not occupied for the past 2 years and he was a worrier because all of his savings gone..

Emy was so really devastated, she was so regretful when her father asked her to massage his legs and she was a bit hesitant to do the request...she would never say "no" to his father today if he still alive..family thought that their dear tatay was doing fine and on the stage of recuperating...This may be the hardest kind of death for families and friends to deal with because it happens so fast.

All living things — including bugs and fish and people — die. It's difficult, even for grownups, to understand why this must happen. It may be the hardest thing of all to understand. The best we can do is accept death as a fact of life. It happens, and we can't do anything to change that.